August 2018

Have you ever been on a flight and heard the flight attendant give instructions? There are many. I’d like to talk about two of them in particular as I find them to be quite profound in life as well as air travel.

  1. “Fasten your seat belts as you may encounter turbulence until we reach a comfortable altitude.”
  2. “In the event of a decompression, an oxygen mask will automatically appear in front of you. … If you are traveling with a child or someone who requires assistance, secure your mask on first, and then assist the other person.”

Let me tell you why I find these so profound.

The first is quite simple. We all know that life is messy. For me it’s about staying in the moment while looking forward. I attended a conference this weekend that reminded me of this. Sometimes life is a struggle, but if we stay the course, it will even out. Hang on and don’t falter in whatever it is you are striving for.

The second is about taking care of yourself. It’s up to you to take care of you. Only you know what your true needs and desires are. In order for us to take care of everyone and everything else, we must first take care of ourselves.

My father is a wise man and has instilled this principle in us over time by impressing upon us the need for self care. I am the mother of a busy family with a great, supportive husband, four beautiful teenaged children, and two businesses. If I don't care for me first, how can I care for the others?

It's your turn to focus on you, before you take care of everyone else. And one of the best ways you can help yourself is to make your body as well as you can be. We all have many stresses in our lives these days, with family, work, school, errands, bills, travel and so much more.

YOU ARE WORTH IT!!! DO IT FOR YOURSELF and then everyone else.

I’d love to hear from you and how I can help you focus on your wellness.